I don’t think there is a better time to talk about this. Cuffing season around the corner. Males and females building up a roster. We are all doing it, and I would have to say college is the best time in your life to pre-date. When you get older and out of college pre-dating just sounds weird. TINDER is probably heating up around now have to get ready for the fall and winter months. No one wants to spend the fall and winter months alone. It’s a tale as old as time. You start talking to a lot of people in September and you narrow it down to one person by the end of the year. You then spend some quality time together lead each other on, and then you both think its better if you are single during spring break! So what is pre-dating? How do you build up a roster? How to pick the best person for the next couple months?
You are in college or high school. Easy just start swiping right. Team swipe right here. Just cause you match with them doesn’t mean you have to message them. Give yourself options. Now, once you get yourself a couple matches. This is where pre-dating can take place. You need to notice if their are any red flags. Will you get your car keyed? Tires slashed? Take a Louisville Slugger to both headlights? Before these happen to you make the intentions clear. Pre-dating needs to take place. Don’t tell them its cuffing season. Their friends will do that for you. Send out a feeler message. Humor always breaks the ice. Get them laughing is a good start. Once you have an understanding of the person. Next, invite them somewhere.Tailgate Season, Darty-ish, Bar night whatever works for the both of you. Notice, I include alcohol in most of this. No one becomes cuffed without alcohol in their system. You are just making sure they aren’t a sobering drunk, unless you are into that. I would not be able to list all of the red flags that could come up during this pre-dating.
You need to start narrowing down the pack. They might pour the milk before the cereal. Their snapchat score in in the 200,000. They snore. They still text like we did in 6th grade. They are still using a sidekick. Just some examples of reasons to cut some people.
Finally, you picked the winner. GO enjoy basic sex for the next several months. Don’t get to into it spring break is only 6 months away.
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